Indian actresses who are married = aunty, aaya, kelevi (old ladies) - macha hypocrisy

A few days ago the cyberworld was rocked by a 50 year old grandma who looks 20. Her pics were uploaded into Facebook by her granddaughter and they took internet by the storm – the disbelief that a 50 year old grandma looking like a 20 year old girl.

This led me to the topic on how Indian guys love to ridicule married/30 above of age Indian actresses as ‘aaya’, ‘aunty’, ‘kelevi’ etc although they don’t look anywhere old or round. When an actress is not married, she’s ‘devathai’, (angel) ‘kanavu kanni’ (dream girl), etc for guys. But, once she’s attached or married suddenly she is attu figure, paati or aunty. Latest on the list is Nazriya Nazim who is married to actor Fahad Fasil. A Malaysian Indian page ridiculed Nazriya as looking like Naaripone nasi lemak after marriage and machas besieged the post, having a field day at expressing their opinion on how Nazriya looks – calling her Nazri-aaya and mostly the term, ‘aunty’. When Aranmanai 2 stills were out, many were ridiculing Trisha as aunty and Hansika is what fits to be drooled upon.

Now, Trisha maybe over 30 years old and Amala Paul maybe married but they still look like college girls. So, why machas call these young looking leading ladies despite their age and marital status ‘aunty’ and other degrading names? I know the answer but just let me compare this ‘aunty’ status given to Indian actresses who tied the knot or are above 30 years of age with Indian actors who are married and above 30 years old which brings us to almost all of them, except 2 that crossed my mind now, Simbu and Vishal Reddy. We don’t see meenachis or machas calling these heroes uncles despite them being a grandfather and fathers to adult children do we? We say, they keep themselves physically fit thus not qualified to be called ‘uncle’ despite them being of the age 60 above, in case of Rajinikanth. Girls liking of Indian actors don’t change - we like them when they’re single, when they’re married and have kids like Surya, Vijay, Vikram, Madhavan, Ajith etc. We don’t call them uncles, kelevan or thatha and neither we get butthurt that they got married or care whether they’re above 30. We just like them because they maintain their physique. My question is, why don’t machas apply the same logic to Indian actresses who are taken and above 30 years old but still are ravishing? I know why. But, read on.

Not so long ago, BehindWoods released pictures of 80s actress Gouthami Tadimalla’s photoshoot and she was looking fab despite her age. But, machas and many meenachis were like, “Ponnuku mapla pakre vayasule inthe aayaku photo shoot kekuthu.” (In the age when this old lady should be finding a bridegroom for her daughters, she is doing photo shoot) To those who agree to that comment, why I don’t see you questioning Rajinikanth/Kamal Hassan/Arjun – them romancing heroines the age or younger than their daughters? I know you will now say ‘how can you insult my thalaivar/fav actor like this?’ Insult feels the same for everyone regardless of gender. You can insult Indian actresses at your whim but when the same is done (I am not even insulting, just saying it won’t take long to have the tables turned) to Indian actors suddenly it’s an abomination? Reflect on that hypocrisy of yours.

Yes, Nazriya has gained weight but so did Arvindswamy - Nazriya was trolled like hell for gaining weight. Arvindswamy, not a squeak. Besides are machas even aware of what motherhood or staving motherhood does to a woman’s body, the pill for the latter? A blitzkrieg of progesterone hormone which ups the body’s fat storing - it’s called baby fat. Water retention is another symptom. Your mother went through all these when carrying you in her womb, sacrificing her figure so that you can come into the world and laugh at another mother to be. How would you like people trolling and ridiculing your mother when she was pregnant with you? Have some science knowledge and related decency.

Then the saying that Indian actresses, especially married and above 30 only looking beautiful because of makeup – I will ask you one simple question. How does Rajini look without makeup? Like a Greek God? I respect his real life simplicity but when male actors appear on silverscreen, they too apply makeup, even Surya and Vidyut Jamwal have makeup on. Makeup is not something only for women to look good especially in show biz.

Also, the term ‘aunty’ used for 30 above and married actresses has a double meaning – if you watch the movie Boys, the fat guy will write a sex story titled Malgova Aunty – there are films, B-rated, often called Malayala Padam which cast women who are called aunties. These movies are abound on YouTube. These machas allude that the actresses in the said categories are only fit to act in the B-rated movies = Indian soft porn. This is women degradation at its finest.

Now on the truth on why machas call married Indian actresses aunty is because their dream to fuck them has been quashed by another macha who plucked the lady off to become his wife. In cases of 30 above actresses, younger machas think they stand a chance. These machas comment on Katrina Kaif, Sameera Reddy, Shreya Saran’s Facebook pages and expect these actresses to reply because since they’re over 30 they’d be desperate right. The actresses don’t reply and machas get sore. So, to pacify their lovelorn heart, machas be a sour grape – she’s aunty and old anyway, I won’t wanna consider her as sight material.

So, quit being a sour grape prick and give credit to whomever who takes care of their bodies against ageing no matter their gender, age and marital status. Ille, Nazriya aunty than nu sonna, Rajini eh taatha nu solalam (If you insist that Nazriya is aunty, then Rajini can be called grandfather) In fact, the latter is actually suiting.