Without needle giving way, thread won’t enter - macha logic

Oosi idam kodukame noolu noleyathu (without the needle giving way, the thread won’t enter) is the adage that is amply rubbed on our faces whenever we say that guys are equally responsible as girls in the issue of premarital sex and that if girls are 2nd hand rubbishes, ecche ellai (used banana leaf) for not being virgins, then the same should apply to machas. If machas have no afflictions to their dignity when they fuck around with girls then the girls they fucked also have no afflictions to their dignity. Somehow, 98% of machas won’t want to take half the responsibility and onus in accordance with the role they play in premarital sex, preferring to pile all the blame on meenachis for opening their legs, refusing and even refuting their role in the act.

This adage was used to justify rape - that it’s the rape victim’s fault. Refer to the Delhi 2012 gang rapists defence lawyers, they used the exact adage to relieve the rapists of their crime. And the rapist was impenitent too - he said that a girl is more at fault for rape than the rapist. And, machas who use this adage to cop out on their role in sex aren’t very different from Mukesh Singh. What’s worse is, machas think only girls can be raped. Little boys are raped anally - it’s still oosi idam kudukama noolu noleyathu in the case of universal rape macha?

Macha, do you know that men can be raped by women too by inducing involuntary erection on behalf of the latter? So, in this case will you say noolu nanaiyile naa oosikulle pogathu? (without the thread being wet, it won’t get into the needle?)

Understand that we are not saying girls who had premarital sex are above reproach - we’re only saying that both parties, the macha and the meenachi are responsible in the case of consensual sex. Oosi and noolu both suka sama suka jadi both tanggungjawab sama tanggungjawab.

You cite Indian culture macha, ok but isn’t it the responsibility of every Indian regardless of gender to uphold the culture? If premarital sex is against Indian culture, then why do macha ask for sex from his gf? Where did Indian culture go at that time? Usi edam kudutha, nooluku engge arivu pochi? Even if she kangkang for sex, if Indian guys are manam ulle ambelei (men of dignity), who hold Indian culture in high regard, they should walk away or tell her it’s not Indian culture. But most guys will be - kadachichida chance nu (here’s my chance), you will have sex. Then you will label her cheap whore and go oosi idam kudukama noolu noleyathu when the noolu is just as to blame as the oosi!