Machas taking advantage of a helpful meenachi and then being ‘PERASAN CASE’
Recently, we have had a number of girls complaining to us about various problems that they have to face when it comes to machas. One interesting case is the fact that when a girl gives some attention to a guy under the pretext of sympathy, that macha quickly wants to be more than just friends. Here’s what the poor girl when through with this annoying macha.
A random macha contacted this girl through WhatsApp saying that he needed help with his studies. He said he got her contact number through another friend. It seems that this macha is studying in the same field as the meenachi. So, meenachi agreed to help him out with his studies by answering questions through WhatsApp. Then, macha started to talk about his life problems with this meenachis. His excuse was that he has no one who really understands his life problems. His macha friends also seem to be ignorant of his problem. Meenachi here had to lend an ear simply because she didn’t wanted to appear cruel and unsympathetic to the macha. So, she listened to his problems and advise him accordingly – through WhatsApp.
Macha then moved on to Step number 3 – he wanted meenachi to send him a photo of her. Meenachi told him off because she sees no point in sending the macha her photo. She has also made it clear to the macha that she already has another guy in her life. But,macha was adamant and keeps on pushing her for a photo. He also cites that she gives him hope for a future relationship. So, meenachi stopped all types of communications with this macha to prevent any further hassling.
Moral of the story is:
1) Inform your meenachi friends not to pass your contact number to some random machas without your permission. Dear meenachis, if a macha wanted your bestie’s number, you check with her first whether it is okay to give out her number to him. You don’t simply give her number to the macha because you wanted to be glamor and popular with the machas. Be a loyal friend and not a friend who sells out other meenachis so that you can be in good terms with the guys.
2) When some random macha WhatsApps you asking this and that, you don’t have the obligations to reply to him or assist him. You can turn him down. If you wanted to help him say with his studies – then, be clear cut that you are only helping him out with his studies and nothing more.
3) It is not your obligation to listen out to random machas’ problems. If you choose to do so, again don’t get to involve with it and advise them to approach a counsellor. Because you don’t want to be wasting time listening to some random dude pouring his heart out to you.
4) Dear machas, just because a girl listens to your problems, that doesn’t mean she is attracted or interested with you. She is just being a nice human being. She is being sympathetic. You don’t start getting into a relationship with a counsellor because she is listening to your problems right? So, same concept here.
5) If you approached a girl and she says she is already with someone else, you FUCK OFF. You don’t hassle her or tell her that she is giving you hope by just talking to you. Many machas still talk to other girls after being in a relationship. Can the girls claim that the guy is giving them hope? No right? So, drill into your mind that she is not coming on to you, she is just acting normal.
6) DON’T BE AN ASSHOLE – forcing her to provide photos when she said she is not interested with you. She doesn’t have any obligations to provide you with her personal information let alone a photo.
We hope this will be a good example to all machas out there. Don’t be desperate and don’t force meenachis to love you. That usually never works and no – LIFE IS not like TAMIL movie where the heroine will definitely fall for the hero. It is more complicated than that.
A random macha contacted this girl through WhatsApp saying that he needed help with his studies. He said he got her contact number through another friend. It seems that this macha is studying in the same field as the meenachi. So, meenachi agreed to help him out with his studies by answering questions through WhatsApp. Then, macha started to talk about his life problems with this meenachis. His excuse was that he has no one who really understands his life problems. His macha friends also seem to be ignorant of his problem. Meenachi here had to lend an ear simply because she didn’t wanted to appear cruel and unsympathetic to the macha. So, she listened to his problems and advise him accordingly – through WhatsApp.
Macha then moved on to Step number 3 – he wanted meenachi to send him a photo of her. Meenachi told him off because she sees no point in sending the macha her photo. She has also made it clear to the macha that she already has another guy in her life. But,macha was adamant and keeps on pushing her for a photo. He also cites that she gives him hope for a future relationship. So, meenachi stopped all types of communications with this macha to prevent any further hassling.
Moral of the story is:
1) Inform your meenachi friends not to pass your contact number to some random machas without your permission. Dear meenachis, if a macha wanted your bestie’s number, you check with her first whether it is okay to give out her number to him. You don’t simply give her number to the macha because you wanted to be glamor and popular with the machas. Be a loyal friend and not a friend who sells out other meenachis so that you can be in good terms with the guys.
2) When some random macha WhatsApps you asking this and that, you don’t have the obligations to reply to him or assist him. You can turn him down. If you wanted to help him say with his studies – then, be clear cut that you are only helping him out with his studies and nothing more.
3) It is not your obligation to listen out to random machas’ problems. If you choose to do so, again don’t get to involve with it and advise them to approach a counsellor. Because you don’t want to be wasting time listening to some random dude pouring his heart out to you.
4) Dear machas, just because a girl listens to your problems, that doesn’t mean she is attracted or interested with you. She is just being a nice human being. She is being sympathetic. You don’t start getting into a relationship with a counsellor because she is listening to your problems right? So, same concept here.
5) If you approached a girl and she says she is already with someone else, you FUCK OFF. You don’t hassle her or tell her that she is giving you hope by just talking to you. Many machas still talk to other girls after being in a relationship. Can the girls claim that the guy is giving them hope? No right? So, drill into your mind that she is not coming on to you, she is just acting normal.
6) DON’T BE AN ASSHOLE – forcing her to provide photos when she said she is not interested with you. She doesn’t have any obligations to provide you with her personal information let alone a photo.
We hope this will be a good example to all machas out there. Don’t be desperate and don’t force meenachis to love you. That usually never works and no – LIFE IS not like TAMIL movie where the heroine will definitely fall for the hero. It is more complicated than that.
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