Meenachi proposes, macha rejects – PART 2

We never expected a huge reaction from meenachis out there when we wrote the first part where macha goes all asshole mode in rejecting meenachi’s love. Machas behave that way simply because they feel challenged. ‘Eppadi aval vanthu yen kitte love pandra nu sollalam?’ (How can she come and propose her love to me?) First of all, meenachis are human beings as well. Why do you machas think girls should never propose to you? Do you guys feel entitled that the decision to choose a life partner should belong exclusively to guys? Seriously, when we heard what some of these meenachis went through after proposing love to machas out there, it makes us think – yenda, ivvalo kevalama nadanthukuringge? (Why do you have to behave so uncouthly?)

There is nothing wrong in rejecting a girl’s love proposal but to humiliate, insult or call her names is not the way a mature guy behaves. When you guys do this, remember life is a cycle. Karma is a bitch. You humiliate a girl today; tomorrow the girl that you loved will return the courtesy to you. This is when you machas go – girls are bitches, all girls are the same, better be single. How you behave towards a girl when she proposes reflects on your mentality, maturity in handling a relationship and your level of education as well. Of course, all these details escape a macha’s mind as he goes all ‘Padaiyappa’ in rejecting a girl. Hearing the numerous rejection stories from our girls out there gives us the impression that there are no machas with good manners out there despite being highly educated.

Bear in mind – oru ponnu na, nallu ambalengge aasai pade than seivangge. Athe maari, oru paiyan na, nallu girls aasai pade than seivangge (A girl will be liked by many guys and a guy will be liked by many girls – it’s natural). No one has the right to say – ni enna love panna kudathu (You can’t fall in love with me) or How can you love me when I have never shown interest in you? If a guy thinks that a girl can only love him if he himself is interested, then that is not called love. Athuku vere peru iruku (there’s another term for it). We are baffled by machas’ level of thinking. Eppadi ippadi logic illame think pandringge? (How can you even think this way?) Pretty sure, the whole mentality part which looks down on a woman’s feelings was shaped by years of heroism and ‘ambele gethu’ scenes projected in Tamil movies. You machas should watch more English movies to educate yourselves that girls can propose to guys too. It doesn’t have to be you guys all the time, you know….(in case if you haven’t realized that yet).

Some machas out there opine that when a girl proposes her love, it cuts off the thrill of chasing and loving her. Dei, yenthe kalathule irukingge da? (In which time period are you guys living?) You use smartphone, hang around the social media but you expect meenachis to be like women of yesteryears? Machas claim they like the thrill of chase but when royally dumped, they get all upset and slander her at every single opportunity. We get cases on daily basis on how meenachis were threaten, harassed and shamed on FB, WhatsApp and other social media simply because they decided to end the relationship. When it comes to handling relationships, machas are at their worst behaviour. Revenging the girl that you loved because she dumped you? Ithu than ungge ambele dictionary le true love ahh? (Is this the definition for true love in your macha dictionary?)

Meenachis don’t go around proposing to random machas on daily basis. But when they do, they obviously saw something special in that macha that they love. Nope, they don’t always fall for your ‘handsome’ face or ‘superr figure’ body like you do when you see a meenachi. Chances are high that they see some positive qualities in you that are worthy enough of love.

Dear machas, when a girl proposes to you and you don’t like it, just say so. Lay off the over-reaction or scene podren dialogues. Meenachi may have loved you for years and finally manage to summon the courage to propose her love to you. So, keep that in mind and don’t be an ASSHOLE (repeat that 108 x). Not every guy gets the opportunity of a meenachi coming over and proposing to them. Consider yourself lucky that a girl loves you that much that she takes the initiative to propose her love to you first. Dear girls, there we have said it. You girls go ahead with your love proposals okay. If any machas behaved like ‘Conan The Barbarian’ , come and complain to us. We shall slay them with our long winded essays…..