Meenachis and Misguided Priorities in Life

 

We have been running this page for almost a year and in that one year; we have received numerous complaints from meenachis regarding the machas they love. The complaints are getting worst each day with meenachis writing to us, begging us either to expose the machas or ask us for advice on how to proceed with their life. And, we noted that these meenachis are still very young, naïve and misguided in what exactly is more important in their life.
Here’s the thing ladies:

a) If you are 12- 19 years old
You are not fit to be in love and your top most priority is your education, development of soft skills and other talents that you have. You entire focus should be on education alone because this will determine where you will be in the next 10 years. We are not saying that you shouldn’t fall in love at all since machas are ayat experts who can charm the nuts and bolts out of a lamp post. And, your heart will melt like ice with the so many ‘romantic’ ayats that machas spin to you. But bear in mind, not to love too much or decide that this macha that you currently love will be your life long partner. Plus, don’t make the mistake of having sex at such young age. You will definitely regret doing it when the macha dumps you for another meenachi.

b) If you are 20 -29 years old
At this age, you will probably get tonnes of love letters and proposals from machas, seeking to be in relationship with you. Now, some meenachi wrote to us that she even sacrificed her degree offer to be in the same college with a karat macha whom she loved. That macha is addicted to watching porn videos and he has been sending dirty messages to junior girls. This meenachi was so hurt and depressed with his attitude because she claims she has given him much chance to change but he treated her badly. So, why do you want such machas in your life? We advised her to dump that macha, walk away and focus on her studies. If you think you should just get a guy, settle down and have kids at this age – well, you will be missing a lot in life which you will grow to regret later on. We are not saying don’t get married – but enjoy your single life exploring your full capacities. Indulge in hiking, outdoor activities, travelling, writing, dancing etc – whatever your passions are, find some time to do it. If you have always wanted to learn how to play the piano, tennis or become a zumba instructor – then go ahead and do just that. We know there are aunties who will tell you – vayasu agithe pothu ma, oru nalla paiyan irukan, nan introduce penni uduren (you are getting older, we can introduce you to nice guys). Please don’t fall for such shitty advices. You are not living in the 1970s or 1980s where ladies must be married before 30 years old.

This is also the best age to further your studies if you have always wanted a MBA, MSc or PhD. Nope, you don’t sacrifice your ambitions for a macha because machas may come and go in your life but a degree will always be yours. Think with your brains as well not just your heart. Be objective and don’t let your heart rule over your brain. Love won’t ‘sooru poduren’ but education and life experiences will help you with your career. One of my best friends had always wanted to do her MSc but she had to settle down with her macha at this age. Every time we meet, she will end up saying – I really wanted to further study but I can’t – too much commitments. I really do sympathize for her as she is a brilliant lady. So, you see ladies – the best time to pursue your ambitions is when you are still unattached. Most meenachis give much priority to machas to determine their life. Stop doing that as this macha will only safeguard his interest. He may see your ambitions as an obstacle for him.

We are here for you if you want to talk about all the worst things that machas have done to you. We can only advise you but, it is up to you to realize what’s most important in your life if you are still around the age of 12-29 years old. Take care dear meenachis.