Women are Humans, not Gold, Diamond or Pearl

I came across this shit of exalting women then objectifying, dictating and trampling women and I couldn't resist demolishing it for the sake of awareness.

Two young ladies arrived a Meeting wearing clothes that were quite revealing their body parts. Here is what the Chairman told them: He took a good look at them and made them sit. Then he said something that, they might never forget in their life. He looked at them straight in the eyes and said; "ladies, everything that God made valuable in this world is well covered and hardly to see, find or get.

“Come sir, I shall destroy you today. What do you mean clothes that were quite revealing their body parts? Face, hands, wrists, arms, legs etc are body parts so what do you mean? Women are full human beings so why do you senselessly butcher them into body parts? You and the ladies are there for a meeting so instead of concentrating on the meeting, why are you concentrating on the ladies clothes and giving them unsolicited advice? As a chairman, your job is to chair the meeting, not moral police women in God’s name in the guise of benevolent sexism. And your mansplaining is not only nauseating but also intrusive which is the father of all social indecency. And if you thought women are dumb to take your ill advice and not forget it for life, read on.”

1. Where do you find diamonds? Deep down in the ground, covered and protected.

2. Where do you find pearls? Deep down at the bottom of the ocean, covered up and protected in a beautiful shell.

3. Where do you find gold? Way down in the mine, covered over with layers of rock and to get them, you have to work hard & dig deep down to get them.

God made valuable things well-covered? Valuable to whom? To God or human? God/laws of nature don’t discriminate creation of nature – humans do and trust me, humans can live without precious diamond/pearls/gold. Do you know the value of water, salts and life? Water is essential and quintessentially more valuable than diamonds, pearls and gold. Of course there is underground water but water’s value is only appreciable when it flows openly – people are like water, they flow, forever changing the landscape and keeping life intact. Isn’t life valuable? And, sir, please Google cubic zirconia and Swarovski crystals. I understand that clothing is part of human civilization. But civil behaviour is not what you display.

Also by equating women to gold, diamond and pearls, you are fixing a rate for our bodies. You sir, are objectifying us both covered and uncovered and we won’t tolerate that.

He looked at them with serious eyes and said;

"Your body is sacred & unique" You are far more precious than gold, diamonds and pearls, and you should be covered too."So he added that, if you keep your treasured mineral just like gold, diamond and pearls, deeply covered up, a reputable mining organization with the requisite machinery will fly down and conduct years of extensive exploration. First, they will contact your government (family), sign professional contracts (wedding) and mine you professionally( legal marriage).But if you leave your precious minerals uncovered on the surface of the earth, you always attract a lot of illegal miners to come and mine you illegally. Everybody will just pick up their crude instruments and just have a dig on you just freely like that. Keep your bodies deeply covered so that it invites professional miners to chase you.

 Women’s bodies need to be respected – you don’t get to say that their bodies are sacred and unique and go ahead and objectify them. Women are not gold/diamonds/pearls. They are human beings with likes and dislikes, autonomy and free will. What? NO. Women equip themselves with the requisite machinery to empower themselves and call out entitled pricks like you on your shit. They spend years, not underground, covered up, waiting for any misogynist miner to mine them but go out into the world, exploring their capabilities and capacities, not letting suit coat wearing Taliban like you decide their worth merely by dressing and whether or not they are fit for marriage. You asked everyone – govt (family), professional contract (wedding) and professional mining (marriage) but did you ask the woman? Whether or not she wants to be married? You don’t ask gold’s permission before you mine it do you so what makes a professional miner and an illegal miner different? What’s the difference between high tech machinery and crude instruments to dig a woman’s body? You are still raping her because she never consented in the first place which you make every man (miner) out there sound like a rapist. You think it would be convenient if women be like gold/diamonds/pearls – no mind of their own, no idea what to do in life, no power to live life as they want and always be at your beck, call, diktats and mercy.

Do you know that you are degrading the institute of marriage, that you are reducing it to a license to have sex? What about companionship, cooperation, love, trust, equality and lifetime partnership? Of course when you see women as merely objects that you belie as more precious than gold, all you can think is how to mine (fuck) never mind if she is covered or not, perpetuating rape culture and even decriminalising marital rape coz all you wanna do is mine (fuck) women immaterial of legal marriage being the catalyst. You just implied that all men are rapists – some are professional, some are crude.  

By saying what you did sir, you are saying that women are either to be raped in the guise of marriage or in the guise of her dressing is not covered up enough. Are men so low? Are they all rapists? Is that your message? Why are you insulting men?

And why do you think women want men chasing after them to get married? Women want to study, start a business, travel, do research – 1000 dreams like these. Who are you to think all women want is to get married? No woman is proudly saying there are 20, 50, 100 men chasing me and one of them is going to mine me professionally. It’s an insult to our intelligence and human abilities. What makes you think we will marry a fucker who doesn’t respect our freedom of choice and free will, consent and autonomy?

Let us all encourage our wives, friends and daughters to dress well and decent!

No, encourage men to mind their own business and respect women’s self expression, freedom of choice and free will. And, treat women like human beings and behave like one yourselves rather than sounding disrespectful of a woman’s rights and making all men seem like rapists. There are many men out there who are not of your breed.

Ponggeda lentil!