Girls who go clubbing are not necessarily bad and girls who stay at home always are not necessarily good girls

Machas have been constantly lobbying that meenachis who club are literally rotten to the core while girls who stay at home are good girls and wife material.

But the thing is, in this age, the character of person simply cannot be determined by their outer conduct. Girls who stay at home, go to temple regularly, wear pottu, manjal, poo, koluse, valayal and traditional dress may seem divine but it’s only superficial.

Whomever says that bad influence for girls only exist in hedonistic places like pubs and clubs, you cannot be more mistaken. I know some girls who are homely but having rotten hearts - yaarode kudiye epdi kedukalam nu sketch pottukitte irupange (always devising ideas on how to destroy the lives of others). Some of these girls won’t hesitate to use black magic to further their agendas - from nasi kangkang, vasiyam, yeval to pilli sooniyam, they have the guts to do it. In fact a macha messaged us on how he made a mistake choosing a homely girl - he quoted that velipadiya club ku pore, frank ah pesere ponnungala nambalam, (can even trust girls who publicly go to pubs and speak frankly) inthe poosi mulughere ponnungala (those girls who are coy) should be taken with a pinch of salt. Many of these girls are Tamil mega serial buffs - that’s what they do staying at home, watching serials from dawn to dusk. And to find good things in serials is like finding a needle in a haystack. Girls who club meet new people and discover new things. This is not a blanket statement though - it fits where it fits.

Like how all machas who drink are not porikkis or troublemakers, not all girls who drink are vandis. KK featured a macha who is so divine on the outside - all religious and righteous but attempting sex chat with a girl online. He then begged us to take down the post as his reputation is at stake - when we refused, he blocked us. This is what I meant by saying that in this age, the character of person simply cannot be determined by their outer conduct. Ulle onnu, velile onnu (One thing inside, another thing outside) so stop saying girls who are honest about their lifestyle are bad. At least they don’t keep anything in heart and show the world that this is the lifestyle they chose frankly, without any cover up. Homely or liberal, kannal parpathum poi, kaadhaal ketpathum poi - theevire visaranaiye mei. (what you see and hear are lies, further investigation is truth). Indian society should just stop being so superficial and judgmental especially when it comes to our girls.