How virginity is used as a tool to shame meenachis

It’s totally too easy for a typical macha to shame a meenachi nowadays. Display liberalism, human rights and civil liberties tenets and throw in some knowledge about sex and be outspoken in advocating gender equality and voila, such a meenachi has slept with some guy somewhere and now is trying to cover up her mistake.

You see how myopically partial these machas are? They don’t care if a macha has been sleeping around, his virginity doesn’t count but meenachis should protect her virginity like their lives depend on it and if a meenachi suggests otherwise, she’s not a virgin and definitely a slut.

This tends to happen when virginity is put above every criteria in an Indian girl. These machas won’t support progression in thought and the achieving of gender equality simply because they fear that they can no longer bridle women – pull them using a mookana kayiru (nose leash) They fear that if meenachis get the bookish facts about sex and get cognizant about it, knowing their own anatomy such as labia, G-spot, clitoris, vulva etc, their sexual performance will be discounted. Mostly, they fear the impunity, pardon and normalcy granted for machas when they fuck around as opposed to girls.

For these machas, girls should not have a choice and knowledge when it comes to sex and anything related to it. If a girl takes whatever shit her husband doles on her, without complaining or demanding, she’s a good girl. Not so long ago, Chennai girls were asked whether they want an experienced partner or a virgin partner and all those girls who said they want an experienced partner were condemned furiously by these machas infested with hypocrisy. I was like WTF, machas are largely not virgins anyway and hence what’s the big fuss of the girls asking for experienced partner? The wrong is, the girls making a fucking choice - these machas expect these Chennai meenachis to say, “Chi, ithellam oru ponnu paathu kekre kelviya? (Yuck, is this a question that can be asked to a girl?) Or coyly say ‘I don’t know’ and ‘Anything is ok for me.” But since the Chennai meenachis actually opted, they’re sluts.

But, if these machas suddenly get a nyana udhayam (enlightenment) that guys too should refrain from premarital sex so girls won’t be able to want experienced partner ok la. Ini tidak, premarital sex-um vechikanum, girls-um experienced partner keke kudathu (want to have premarital sex and girls too shouldn’t ask for experienced partner.) These machas want to have their damn cake and eat it too. I wonder what will happen if Indian guys ask for experienced partner - how these machas reaction will be. It probably would be like, innoruthan sappi potte chewing gum eh ivan sapdenum nu ngran. (a chewing gum which have been sucked by another guy he is willing to eat) Well, when a girl can accept a guy who had shared his body with another girl/other girls, why can’t a guy do likewise? Purity associated with virginity isn’t only a girl’s monopoly if you want to be fair. Girls are not banana leaves or chewing gum to decrease in value once they’ve had premarital sex just like how guys don’t go bad after sharing his body with a girl.

Yet, it’s not like only meenachis who insist that virginity isn’t important, some machas do too. So I want to see how these machas who believe in civil freedom are condemned and I’ll only accept it if they are shamed by the same line ‘avan yeve kudeyo paduthutu virginity eh lose pannitan, anthe thappe cover panna than virginity isn’t important nu soldran.” Indian society, start to be impartial when it comes to virginity and don’t encourage ignorance in sex matters in meenachis to deem them ‘good girls”! Girls should know about their anatomy and be correctly informed about sex and that makes them correctly informed, not sluts, whores and bitches.