Machas and Moving On after A Breakup

After breaking up with their girlfriends, most machas will wallow in sadness. They spend time getting drunk or feeling sorry for themselves. Some of these machas will start plotting revenge against their ex-girlfriends by spreading rumours about them or the latest trend of revenge porn. Whatever it is, a break up is difficult and it is acceptable if you are grieving for a certain period of time say a few weeks to a few months. And, mind you – both machas and meenachis do go through emotional grievances when they breakup. Only machas shamelessly display it openly in all kinds of ways, the most channels used being Tamil movies love failure songs and memes while meenachis tend to reel in their feelings and keep it quiet. Then, both parties should move on with their lives, doing some more productive and positive stints. Most meenachis have no problem doing this, being rational and objective of the breakup. Machas on the other hand, prefer to be stuck in the rut and be very contented with their stagnant situation.

Then, you will have idiots who will circulate memes with the caption – after break up, avenge nalla irupangge, namma than apadiye irupom (after a break up, she will be better off while I am still with no improvement). Well, to the macha who made this meme – do you realize how pathetic you sounded? You are whining and complaining while sitting there doing nothing about your life. You realize that your ex-girlfriend has moved on a long time ago. She has decided to further her studies, got a better job opportunity in another town or city and probably has another boyfriend already. And, you broke up with her two years ago. So, what’s your excuse? That your love is so deep that you can’t forget her? Stop telling lies to yourself and stop blaming her for moving on because moving on is the most sensible thing that any individual will do after ending a relationship. Not getting drunk and get wasted…..Why you machas are still where you were after a break up is because your attitude as stated below.

While you are busy plotting against your ex, she is working hard to compete for a promotion in her company. While you play truant from attending work, she is putting in extra time at work so that she can climb up the career ladder. While you are busy forwarding her photos to your macha friends, she is enrolling herself for further studies. While you are asking your macha friends to harass her by phone calls, she is busy studying hard to get that higher degree. While you are cursing her and bad mouthing her to your machas, she is focusing on her personal development – basically enrolling herself in yoga, meditation, gym and other beneficial activities. While you are growing a beard and other hairs on your body, she is busy getting herself a facial treatment, new haircut and a new wardrobe. While you are spending your nights getting drunk and vomiting by the roadside, she sleeps well and gets up for an early jog everyday. While you go around sharing memes on social media that – ALL girls are cheaters, single forever and breakup is better, she shares motivational quotes like – The Best Has Yet to Arrive, Challenges Make You Stronger, You are Unique and Beautiful. While you are puffing away boxes of cigarettes in the name of heartbreak and polluting your body with carcinogenic –cancer inducing compounds, she is practising healthy living by eating healthy, exercising and thinking positive thoughts. So, you see where you are going wrong there machas?

Aprom avangge nalla than irupangge (of course she will be better off) and you will be the exact same as when your girlfriend dumped you or worse, macha. So, instead of complaining like a cry baby – MOVE ON. That’s the best way to handle breakup and please – don’t ask advice from your macha friends when you just got dumped. Machas are the most useless creatures who would just tell you what you wanted to hear instead of what is good for you. They don’t care even if their advice pushes you into a drain because they wanted to please you and ‘jaga hati’. So, you should know better on how you can improve your life. But many machas just prefer to slack off and revenge their ex – girlfriends online. We hope you will have a better grasp of what you must do in case no one had actually given you a proper advice in your life on how to handle breakups.