Machas questions and reactions on the topic of virginity

While some machas have showed mental progression and equality when it comes to virginity, there are still those machas who berate us for writing on virginity, that good girls don’t discuss about virginity what more write about it.

According to these machas, as girls, we are pure nonsense and wasted sperms to talk about the issue of virginity in social media because everything shouldn’t be talked about in social media plus we’re girls. If we were born in good families, we wouldn’t talk about virginity in social media. We shouldn’t be nosy in the matter because obviously we’re not virgins and god have decided whom machas should marry. Lastly, we should post useful stuff rather than nonsense.

I’d say to these machas to go easy on the Padayappa, ‘mothethele, pombele, pombeleya irukkanum’ (a lady should be like a lady) conniption. You don’t stereotype any gender because it is pernicious – there are no set black and white rules to apply to each gender. Gender fluidness is inherent in both genders – recognize the grey lines in between genders instead of assigning whole attributes in black and white to male and female. Yes, we are girls but that doesn’t mean talking about virginity make us contemptible - what? Only guys can talk about virginity?. Hundred years ago, if a girl goes to school then she’s not a good girl. Culture should evolve and if it doesn’t, the community will regress. Best example? Our patriarchal Indian culture. And you know why this Taliban Indian moral policing is only directed to girls? It’s because socioeconomically, we’re in the lowest rung. The only way to feel superior by machas who can’t reach the desired socioeconomic status is by controlling and denigrating girls and insisting on girls’ virginity while they sow their wild oats. Socioeconomically better off Indians don’t do that. Best example, the Malaysian Chinese community – shorts aren’t Chinese cultural dress but you don’t see Chinese men policing Chinese girls for wearing short-short. Why? Because they are too busy developing their financial bastion and they know that moral policing ladies isn’t going to preserve their culture because culture applies to both men and women. They rather build their financial standing rather than policing women. Chinese men have given up wearing the plait and so they don't expect their women to wear Chinese cultural robes because they're being fair. We Indians, how? Blame women for every shit that machas can’t manage due to all kinds of negative factors.

So, you’re saying that people from good families are averse of sex and virginity? This shit perception is exactly why 13 year old meenachis elope with their karat macha bf citing true love. This is why teen pregnancy happens. In school, reproduction chapter in Form 3 are usually flipped through by teachers at supersonic speed. If students don’t opt for Biology for SPM, that’s all they get on scientific, factual shit on sex. You seriously think that shit is enough? Then they learn about sex by porn and misguided friends. And if they do all that, clandestine business, they’re from good family. If we speak about facts regarding sex, virginity and urge parents to have ‘the talk’ (refer to our previous post on how parents can talk about love and sex with their kids) and bring awareness contained in not gender stereotyping when it comes to carnal desires on social media so that it would help erase ignorance, we’re not from a good family. Sweet.

Kamasutra was written by an Indian – sage Vatsyayana and how many of you know that it was written to make people cloyed and bored with sex and use sex only for reproduction? You yourself don’t know Indian culture and you speak about it? Mana kau layak? Podahh! (Go man) The west romanticised Kamasutra, came up with porn and you macha dumbfucks watch porn and fap. It’s okay for you to do all that from the west and have flings but it’s not ok for meenachis to do all that and when we point that hypocrisy of yours publicly, we’re not from a good family. But you, fapping furiously at BDSM porn are from good family. At least, we’ve got the guts to discuss this openly, with parents. Do you have guts to tell your parents about your porn preoccupations macha?

And, you bring in god, saying he had decided whom should machas marry and that we shouldn’t be nosy in this matter. Dei erume, pandrethu ellam pannitu god eh ethukku ilukure? (You buffalo, you do everything then pull in god?) God isn’t responsible for your actions and neither god said to marry, only virgin girls are eligible. If machas stop fucking around, then all girls will be virgins for you to marry. You can’t fuck around or hope to fuck a girl and then say only virgins are marriageable and expect girls to be virgins when you take every opportunity to screw girls!

Machas say virginity topic is nonsense and that we should come up with topics of more importance. Machas putting utmost importance to girls’ virginity they can’t see. We post informational posts, machas don’t see, macha only like to see controversial posts but ask us to write useful posts and when we do, machas won’t see. Reflect that hypocrisy.

Well, we wrote quite a lot on virginity, the science behind the membrane hymen, the spurious nature of a girl’s virginity, the importance of prenuptial medical checkup, AIDS awareness and parents but you people basically don’t give a fuck to read and share when we write on the science of virginity - that there is no way to determine physical virginity that is informational. No, you prefer to learn about sex from porn rather than read something factual When we write on the Indian sexism on virginity, we’re told to write something useful. Yean da en isk-u, educational ah eluthuna yaaru da padikke varingge? Gilma va eluthuna thane thene kande theni mari moikiringge. Aperom enggele something useful-ah eluthe sonna enna nyayam ngren? (You people, when we write informational stuff, none of you come to read. Only when we write something juicy that you swarm like bees. Then what is the justice for you to tell us to write something useful when you don’t bother to read what we write??) Before you point your finger to us, look at the 4 fingers pointing back at you.