Married machas, carnal wants and meenachis

This is a follow up on the married machas who commit adultery after marriage with foreign workers, then conveniently blame their wives as not providing enough sexual attention. In a marriage, it takes two to work it out and no one guaranteed that marriage is equal to happily ever after endings. It is often a journey full of heartaches and headaches. How two individuals who manage these will determine whether they will live together for the next 30 -40 years. Nope, adultery is not acceptable in marriage and if anyone tells you meenachis –‘ambele na appadithan (guys are like that), adjust penni vaalu (you need to adjust and live) and ‘manichi ethuko’ (forgive and accept him), well you ask yourself – are you willing to live with a guy who couldn’t care about your feelings and betrayed you with another woman? What is the guarantee that he won’t repeat the mistake again in the near future since you are so forgiving? Some married machas know that their wives will accept them back so they freely commit mistakes without remorse. So, meenachis – ask yourself – are such machas worth a live long pain?

For married machas who have problems with sex and sexual relationship with your wives – find a solution to address it. Have a talk with your wife and not start to look for alternatives. Remember, your wife is tired and stressed out from her work just like you. So, if the both of you are not spending much ‘bed’ time together, then sit down and talk about it. Find ways to allocate personal time for you and your wife. Your wife has to also do household chores and take care of the kids. So, you help out with these chores so that she will have more time to spend with you. Don’t just sit there kale virichikittu (with your legs spread) in front of the television and complain that she is not giving you much attention. Help her to clean up the dishes and dirty plates so that she has less chores to do.
Also, discuss with your wife on your expectations when it comes to sex. Ask your wives as well what they are comfortable as well when it comes to sex. Sex is not all about you machas having fun. So, let to compromise, understanding and stop being selfish. Relationships are about two people and not just a guy. If you or your wife have problems in relation to sex or your reproductive organs, it is best to quickly refer to doctors. Most married machas who have problems with their reproductive organs refuse to seek medical attention out of ego and shame. Then, they get all insecure and blame the wife for not having sex with them. Machas who heavily drink and smoke may have problems getting an erection when having sex simply because the tiny veins on their penis are damaged. Such bad habits and unhealthy lifestyle will affect sexual performances but machas are an ignorant bunch who would rather blame the wives for inadequate sex rather than confronting their own shortcomings.

The Indian society expects the indian wife –pondatti ya avalukku teriyatha aval purushen engge poran, enna seiran nu? (as a wife, how come she doesn’t know where her husband goes and what he does?) Like WHAT THE FUCK? Dear Indian society, do you expect the wife to continuously follow the husband everywhere? Even if he says he is going to meet his friends, and goes to fuck with a foreign worker, is that her fault? If she calls him frequently to enquire where he is, you will say she is being controlling and suspicious. So, what makes you think a wife will know what her husband does all the time? Married machas – be truthful to your wives. You can betray or lie to her, thinking that no one will find out. But, one day – your sister or your daughter might be cheated by other machas. Not getting enough sex is not an excuse to FUCK around or stray like a street dog – so we hope machas out there find better ways at solving such problems with their wives by talking things out with each other, not have extramarital affairs. And, extramarital affair is bad not only when men do it but also women.