Meenachis after sex, becomes a used item?

While premarital sex is a different topic altogether, many machas tend to kalti viduran (leave) their gf once matter is over. Yet, these machas will tell other machas that these girls are ‘used items’, hence not good for life.

Apparently for these guys, a girl is only good for ‘one time’, after that she becomes ‘ecche ellai’ (a used banana leaf) I first heard this term in the movie Thalainagaram where Prakash Raj would say about the gangraped heroine - un would be Udubi ecche ellai aita (your would be has become a used banana leaf) I was like WTF. It’s just a movie but it depicts the reality. Astro Ulagam conducted an interview asking machas whether they’d marry a rape victim and all but one who were interviewed said NO, giving shit reasons like dignity and society.

Often times a guy who had sex with a girl learns that the girl has found another guy would become an incendiary agent, a batu api. He’d go at the girl’s current bf, ‘you’re eating the leftovers that I threw away bro.’ Periya Freemason Brotherhood. Mocking the guy for apparently wanting other guys’ leftovers he will say ‘naan thinna ecchiye thinggeriye.’ (you’re eating the item which I had tasted) This is not only supremely insulting but superiorly unfair. If the other guy is in his right, unbiased mind, he’ll say, ‘Right-u bro, ava ecche ellai na neeyum ecche ellai than’. (Right bro, if she's a used banana leaf for having sex with you then you too is a used banana leaf for having sex with her.)This is the comeback every macha should say to ex bfs who try to degrade their ex gfs who have found another love. But such machas are sparse - most will only allow friction to spark in the relationship.

The macha might not even have fucked his ex gf - just make out but due to maybe the frustration she didn’t let him fuck her, he turns all green Grinch and proceed to slander her bodily dignity at her current bf, dropping hints - she has a mole on her left inner thigh, on top of her right breast, she wears this particular brand of bra, she wears __ bra size, whatever to make the guy agitated and ruin the relationship.

And, these are the very machas who speak of true love and be like ‘aanode kadhal kai reghe pole, penn ode kadhal kai kuttai pole’ (the love of a man is like the lines on hand, the love of a woman is like hand kerchief) No maapu, you don’t give me this shit while you leave/torture a girl you claim you love just because she had had sex before and you succumbing to her ex’s ill intention. It’s not true love. Is virginity is all the worth of a woman? Aren’t her mind, convictions, education, job position, capacity, capability and abilities worth it? What can you do with her virginity? Please answer machas, because I really want to know how a woman’s virginity is able to take you to great heights since you emphasize so much on it while your virginity dah ke laut. The saying only goes that behind every successful man there is a woman, not behind every successful man there’s a woman’s virginity. And don’t cite it’s our Yindian culture machas especially if you furiously fap at porn daily - kamasutra was written to make one cloyed of sex - that’s Indian culture. You getting more and more addicted to porn and having an insatiable sex desires are against Indian culture. And if you feel it’s not wrong to watch porn, hey everyone does it then it’s not wrong if a girl ain’t virgin especially when you played a role in the girl losing virginity and you yourself having lost your virginity.

Women are not a banana leaf meal or fruits or vegetables for anyone to call them leftovers. Like men, women are human beings made from flesh and blood and they don’t go bad after losing their virginity. If a girl is ‘ecche ellai’ after doing matter then guys who had done matter are ‘ecche ellai’ as well. Women mattum impure aam after matter but guys mattum pure aam (women are impure after matter but guys are pure no matter what?) Either this logic should apply to both genders or dismissed as a non issue. I know you will say that I am not from a good family for writing this but you trying to ruin your ex gf’s life using this ecche ellai logic is of course depicting YOUR so called 'respectable, dignified and noble family of peerage'