Meenachis’ dilemma after losing their virginity to playboy bf

Correction in the meme: that he has to marry you if he wants sex

We have been running this page for almost a year and within this one year; we have several cases of meenachis approaching us, sharing how they have been cheated by karat machas out there. These meenachis also admitted to having sex with such machas and discovering that machas are playboys after that. Today, we’re begging meenachis not to pander to such porikkis.

Love is intoxicating but do have some sense when it comes to having sex in the name of love. Know that if a guy truly loves you and want you for life, he won’t pester for sex so quickly into the relationship. Some of these meenachis have known a macha for only months and yet they have had sex with him. Why would you be so willing to get naked with a guy whom you have known for months only? Seriously you can’t gauge a man’s intent and trust him fully just in months - give it at least a year.

Another meenachi approached us, stating that she has had sex with other guys and is damn worried that her future husband will come to know about this. The meenachi was so desperate about being a virgin and she wished she had never slept with any other guys before. Most girls who have been cheated seem to display the same pattern – they fall for ‘loving’ and caring words from the guy. These are girls between the ages of 17 – 28 years old. Somehow, girls within this age range are lacking in maturity. They do things which they come to regret later in their life.

We’d like to take the opportunity here to say that our Indian society, machas and even meenachis are very prejudiced towards girls - that it’s always the girls’ fault for giving in to guys’ adamant pestering for sex, “If he asks, why she kangkang for him to masuk?” And, machas are so BODOH SOMBONG, they they won’t accept medically proven tenets on girls’ virginity and insist that Indian culture lies in meenachi’s vagina. Somehow machas forget that Indian culture lies in female’s vagina when they ask for sex from their meenachi gf and use adages like ‘oosi edam kodukama noolu noleyathu’ (without needle giving way, thread won’t enter) and master key and shitty lock analogy. At KK, we’re battling these prejudices and are paying the price for it - god knows how many people called us whores simply because we say that if it’s a girl’s fault for giving in to sex, it’s the guy’s fault as well for pestering her. We are not assigning the sole blame on machas because women are sexual creatures as well and sex is an expression of love. But it’s made like a sin when meenachis do it and a non issue when machas do it which is ironical because the act is done by both so how come the meenachi is sinning and destroying Indian culture when the macha is completely relieved of any compunction?

Girls, sex is an intimate act and it brings two individuals closer but it should be done with discretion on both parties, you and your partner. Once you have been cheated, no point in coming to us to expose the guy to the public. It’s not our job or the reason why we run the page in the first place. Yes, yes we know you don’t want other girls to be victims of the guy as well but the best way to that is a police report and not reporting to KARUTHU KANNAMA. We can only expose these guys and after some time, people will forget about them as they are guys.

So, we hope meenachis out there – please be prudent when it comes to sex. If your bf pesters you for sex, launch a lecture on how Indian society has placed Indian culture in your vagina. Tell him that you don’t want to be the shitty lock and that he has to marry you if he wants sex. Maybe that will shut up these gatal machas who have no shame begging for sex then suddenly talk about why virginity of girls is important but it doesn’t matter that their virginity dah ke laut on KK. Nie semua hipokrit tahap gaban!

To all those girls who have lost their virginity to their ayat-ing playboy bf, you have our sympathy and support and it’s not solely your fault. Blaming and exposing these guys won’t help - our society’s platitudes need to change for you not to be so afeared for having lost your virginity to someone you thought you’d marry. Why it’s okay for a macha who frequents Bangkok wanting to have a virgin wife but not a meenachi who had sex once with her bf who she thought will marry her have to feel and bear so much blame, shame and fear? Are unfairness and gender bias good tenets that makeup our culture?