Why machas should have a meenachi best friend

Actually, opposite sex makes a best friend in ways that are wholesome. Here are 4 reasons why a macha should have a meenachi best friend.

She will synthesize your girlfriend/crush’s mannerisms being a girl herself
Since only a girl will understand another girl, as a macha with a gf/fatal crush, your best meenachi friend will be there for you to explain the meanings behind your gf/crush’ mannerisms and make ways to make the relationship workout. She’d divulge all details and help you get ahead in the relationship or even mediate you and your gf/crush.

2. She will motivate you the way your macha friends don’t
We all know how machas deal with their macha friends’ problems - vaa macha sarakke adikelam (come buddy, let’s booze). Your meenachi bestie instead will actually try to actually solve your problems by motivating you and giving you ideas as to how to overcome your troubles. She’ll kick your ass when you’re passive and give that tough love to keep you going. She is literally your bruh and best macha.

3. You can show your vulnerability and emotions to her without being judged
Often, when you cry at your macha friends, they’ll be patriarchs - men don’t cry. But when you show your emotions, not necessarily your breakup woes but study, job and other life troubles, she’ll give you a shoulder to cry on. She’ll understand your emotional vulnerability because as a girl, she goes through that as much as you do and doesn’t expect you to be strong all the time. She’ll assure you that it’s good that you vent out and will be there for you when you need someone to talk to.

4. She’ll be another mother for you
Your meenachi bestie will prod you to be your best, discouraging bad habits just like your mother would. She’d give you money as debt and shamelessly ask it back saying, “If you can’t pay me back, how will you pay off loans and mortgage?” she’ll ask you how’s her dress and would crack a joke when you say it’s bad. She’ll make you taste her arai gorai cooking and pull a face when you retch to irritate her. She’ll ask your opinion when a potential mappilai comes to see her and wait for your assessment. She’ll make you an integral part of her life and will always stand by you.