"How to Know If a Girl Has had Sex" - The Grand Stupidity

I thought this phenomena of teen Indian guys (and sometimes teen Indian girls) gauging whether a girl has had sex by the shape of her body had died down after I left high school. Apparently it didn't. It didn't only persist but only got more absurd and out of hand.

I got this too - when I was schooling, just wearing my school sports tee shirt was such an abomination and a topic because my curves were visible. And, the hypothesis on whether I had had sex was made by the evidence of my rounded breast shape - gossip spread that my boobs had been fondled and sucked so much, it grew large. And, these days, it has gone down to the shape of a teen girl's buttocks, and her overall body size - if she's amply shaped, it means she's done it. And, she will be shamed for just attaining puberty and having nature's diverse creativity.

Fact is, you cannot tell whether a woman has had sex or not, unless she's pregnant. That pregnancy too can be a result of artificial insemination or in-vitro fertilisation. Science yo.

On why some girls have larger breasts than other girls, it's anatomical differences - just like how the penis size of boys differ, just like how some people are tall and others are petite. Napoleon Bonaparte is famous for being small and Abraham Lincoln is famous for being tall. It's body variations influenced by genes, body types, skeletal makeup and body fat and muscle distribution that changes rapidly during adolescence. Breast growth has nothing to do with the fact a girl had had sex or not - it's only a mark of puberty in girls and the adolescent growth spurt.

It's not intelligent to think all girls who have small breasts and a slender body frame are virgins and all amply endowed girls are not.

How would boys feel if their Adam's apple size and facial hair growth density are used to gauge whether they've had sex or not? Mortified? Same here.

Let boys and girls grow normally and enjoy their teenhood by the virtue of correct facts and awareness about their bodies and the changes they go through. There is no need for this type of sexualised body shaming which is a cock and bull story anyway.

And, no, guys can't tell physically whether a girl isn't a virgin by the way she walks and stuff. Science has proven that female virginity is also undetectable like male virginity.


Quit believing these fibs conjured to boost male ego and make females shrink in shame.