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Justifying sexual harassment because girls wear makeup & dress up - lentils everywhere

Apparently, this meme, justifying sexual harassment is trending.

You think you are too smart is it? 
First of all get your English right and you seem like a very confused person. From sexual harassment, you turn to why you won't respect the heart and feelings of girls.

Sexual harassment happens not because of dress and makeup. If that's so, only models and those in showbiz will undergo sexual harassment. Sexual harassment happens due to opportunity and power complex centred at the vulnerability of the victim. Babies get raped. Boys get raped. Old ladies get raped. Sexual harassment has nil to do with makeup and dressing. Kannammaa had been harassed on Facebook - no one has seen us in person. OPPORTUNITY DUE TO ANONYMITY.

Look dude, like it or not, our world is increasingly becoming more concerned with appearance and less concerned with heart and feelings. So, don't bull here about how you are not acknowledging the feelings of girls because they are concerned with their beauty. You are not acknowledging feelings because you are inconsiderate, uncaring and lack concern for people and derive pleasure from harming or humiliating others. To think this shit mocking Aranthangi Nisha's appearance is funny says it all 



Y'all are hypocrites. You mock girls when they don't wear makeup. You mock girls if they wear makeup - artificial beauty. You insult girls for being dark skinned. Then you turn the tables on girls, faulting them for being appearance-orientated for your own heartlessness.

If a woman is to climb up the vine filled with patriarchal thorns, she needs to desexualise herself. The perfect example? Jayalalitha.

"In 1989, when she opposed Karunanidhi’s presentation of the budget, she was almost disrobed in the assembly. This was in addition to being the recipient of lewd comments and hair pulling. This is probably the highest documented insult that a woman has ever faced in a state Assembly. Yet she persisted. She came out of that incident more guarded than ever before.
She wrapped herself in layers of clothing and stopped wearing any jewelry at all. She succeeded at "desexualising" herself and branded herself as "Amma" (mother), the only known way to gain respect in that highly testosterone-filled environment."

Y'all gloriously trolled Sheril and Priya Prakash Varrier - both for wearing makeup and not. You see, there's no winning here - whatever a woman does is bound to be criticised and judged, either way. You call Trisha paati, (grandma), kelevi (old lady) and if your Thalaivar is called the same (he is a grandfather and an old man anyway) you get rubbed the wrong way.
Dei, if you have humanity in you, you will not harass or disrespect anyone's feelings regardless if they focus on their appearance or not. Simple as that. Don't blame anyone for your own penchant for cruelty and mockery for your fellow partners in humanity. Take responsibility for your actions. HUMAN UP.

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