If machas don’t resort to revenge, then it will be easy for meenachis to kalati uderan (dump) them - Macha logic

We posted a pic where the Thalaivar of many in a movie scene took breakup with his love like a decent person, not resorting to revenge or shaming her and machas were like ‘kalati vida rombe easy ah irukanum, apdi thana?” (It should be easy for girls to dump, isn’t it?)

Now, these are the same machas who profess true love. They can’t see that they are literally blackmailing - if you dump me, you will face the consequences. I don’t see where true love comes in the picture right here.

And in our extremely restrictive when it comes to meenachis society, it is all too easy to shame a girl. Current communication technology nallathukku use pandrangalo illeyo, kettathukku nalla use pandranga.(Current communication tech is used for misogynistic malevolence more than for benign benevolence) Just post a girls’ pics in Whatsapp with her name and contact details and forward them to groups and she’s done for.

My question is, what do these machas get by resorting to such vengeance? What do they get by spoiling a girl’s reputation taking advantage of Indian culture? A Pulitzer Prize? Nobel Prize? Or does it make their life all hunky dory again? Can your venging deed add quality to your CV? Can it help you augment your life in any way? What do you get by doing it?

It’s not like these machas get anything good from their vengeful deed. It’s not like they are going to languish after their gf left them. They are going to heal, come out from the hurt and settle for another girl either by arranged marriage or another love. You bring in machas committing suicide for love failure - somehow, if macha dies for love he loved truly. If a girl dies for love, she’s stupid.

Kathalukene perumai ellam first kana tholvi than. (The pride for love is the first failure.) Onnum rendum escape aana piragu un kadhal 3 avathu sutru le mulumai kaanum aada. (after 1 and 2 escape your love will come a full circle in the 3rd time) Say if you failed in exam despite studying well, will you take out your dejection at the exam paper checker? No, you will resit the exam. If you failed your driving test, you sit for it again. No one said life is easy and love is not easy as well. They say that all is fair in love and war but as civil humans we have conscience, we have a sense of what is right and wrong. Intending to spoil the life of another person is wrong. Machas always want 2 lines so I will give 2 lines written by Thiruvalluvar - innar seitharo theemai, avaridam nanmaiye seithuvidu. (even if someone did something bad to you, you do good to them)

Revenge is the refuge of the weak. Taking revenge doesn’t make you a good person. Decide whether you want to be a person of value or a person who is a repugnant monster. And, it is not only girls who senju. Mattere mudichutu, pulleye kuduthutu senju pandre macha kes eh bukak pannatuma? (Shall I open the cases of machas who senju after finishing matter, getting the girl pregnant?) You’re only lucky because no one cares whatever guys do in our society citing ‘boys will be boys.’ That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t use your code of humanly ethics.