Machas and TRUST issues in relationship

The basis of every relationship is trust. Once that trust is broken or if either one of the couples have trust problems, then it is just a matter of time for the relationship to go astray. Was waiting at a commuter station on weekends, and I couldn’t help noticing a meenachi looking so anxious, waiting for the bus. She was dressed up like any university going student, with a handbag. At one point, she got a call and started yelling over the phone. That’s what caught my attention as she was speaking loudly on the phone. Here is how the conversation went from her end:-
Meenachi : I have been waiting for bus for almost an hour okay. My mum was not at home
and my brother fetched me to the commuter station. That’s why I am late.
Meenachi : XXX (says macha’s name) …thappa pesathe …nie pesurathu serile (the way you
talk is not right).
Meenachi : (repeats again the story on how she was late and that she is still waiting for the
bus)
Meenachi : Unaku ippo enna problem. Athan soldrane that I am still waiting for the bus.
Meenachi : repeats the reasons for being late for the 3rd time.
Meenachi : XXX (says macha’s name) …..nie thappa pesathe solthen (the way you speak is
not right).
Meenachi : you know what – I am not coming over, forget it. I am going back

Meenachi hangs up the phone and gets into a bus. I was watching this whole exchange between the meenachi and her macha. Not bad – especially the part where she decided that it is not worth the pain to meet up with a macha who is continuously being suspicious of her despite her providing the reasons to being late. I sort of admire such meenachis – strict, straight to the point and does not tolerate any shit from karat machas who are continuously suspicious of meenachis.

So, what probably happened was this idiot macha refused to accept her explanations for being late and started using some vulgar words. And meenachi decided she had had enough of his attitude – hence she cancelled whatever date/meet up that she has planned with the macha. You see machas, this is no longer the olden days where women have to continuously prove their innocence, loyalty to you while you can forever be on suspicious mode. Most girls will simply walk away or tell you off for your suspicions. Now, in a relationship, if you can’t trust your girlfriend, then you are not qualified to have a girlfriend. Of course, most machas keep on being suspicious of their girlfriend, until meenachis get tired of it and dump them. Then, you will see all kind of crocodile tears from such machas who will claim that all girls are senju. In reality – these machas are like ‘bagai kera mendapat bunga’. They don’t appreciate their girlfriends and when she dumps him – apalagi, she will get the senju label despite him being a santhega peroli (a man who has chronic suspicions on his girl). Machas think they can be suspicious of their meenachis but if meenachis get suspicious – machas will give that standard movie dialogue – Yen mele nambikai illeiya (don’t you trust me) even if they are actually cheating on their girlfriend. And they expect meenachis to not to question them. In a relationship, mutual trust is important - that is the glue that holds the relationship together. If either party won’t apply the glue, the relationship is done for..

To dear meenachis, ask yourself if it’s worth to be in relationship with such machas. MAYBE you think this macha loves you so much. Well, you may be flattered easily but after some time, you will feel suffocated with the ever suspicious eye that your macha cast on you. You have to justify your each and every move, tolerate his vulgar words and indecent questions simply because he thinks you are cheating on him. Ask yourself – is this what you want for the rest of your life? So, be careful and don’t get yourself into a toxic relationship with such machas who are forever suspicious of your attitude and behaviour. Love is all about trust and if trust is the problem in your relationship – then you will have a big problem, dealing with such insecure machas in the future. Remember girls, you are not Seetha to walk over fire and prove yourself each time your macha gets suspicious of you.