Machas who don’t pay back the debt that they take from their meenachi gf after breakup

There are machas who have money shortage and resort to taking debts from their meenachi gf to cover their expenses. Then after they breakup these machas don’t bother paying back the money they owe their ex gf or make her wait or worst, vereppu etheran (exasperate) the meenachi on the base of, ‘kuduklena ennadi pannuve?’ (If I don’t give you back the money, what will you do?)

One case that came to our knowledge is about a macha who’s basic salary is RM 6.5k per month. Yet he is the splurge type and he cadged his student gf who actually supported him financially. She had to take 3 trains to see him and she lent him money worth more than 2k that she made by working part time. The meenachi soon came to her senses and left him. The macha was cool about it as he believed that she will come back to him sooner or later. When she didn’t, the macha started texting her, ‘ayating’ her as he was ‘starving’. The meenachi was firm in her decision and told him to give back the money he owed her. He is paying her back in installment basis, mitigating the sum - from RM200 per month to RM100 to RM50 per month. But he has money to buy new phone and show it off on Facebook. He is dating another girl and checks in on Facebook whenever they go out.

All I wanna say is, paying back people you owe money is basic decency - it doesn’t have to be only your gf. Doesn’t one feel guilty or shame of not paying debts back? In this post breakup gf money owing thing, macha, pay up la. What kind of sick satisfaction do you get by dragging your ex on, making her breathe down your neck for just giving you money whenever you asked for it? It’s not classy behaviour to make someone who gave you money at your beck and call only to make her alayaran (run) behind you to get her money back - it’s boorish and very unclass, plainly uncouth.

Also I learned that there are machas, after taking money as debt from their meenachi gf and when the amount accumulates, strategically break the relationship to avoid paying the debt back. Now, this is cruel machas. Have some shame and humanity - don’t be a vekkam ketta janmam (shameless creature) who has no qualms basically extorting in the name of love. Love love than, your souls maybe together (macha ayat) but when it comes to money matters, vaiyum vayirum vere, vere (mouth and stomach are separate).

So machas, if you owe your ex gf money save up and pay up. Don’t be a complete jerk.