Meenachis who fall for player macha ayats on Facebook - be aware

There are many meenachis out there on Facebook who are plain shallow and inane - they give their hearts to machas, who are when compared to them, are literally nobodies - bad English, still at kanak-kanak Ribena swaq stage well into their 20s and mostly playas (playboys) who have no qualms go around telling girls they’re single despite already having a girlfriend who is much better than them in terms of education and job.

What i can’t digest is these meenachis who are super girls, educated, beautiful, decent, street smart and independent and yet canno’t spot a cheating jerk a mile away. Simple ayats like, ‘did you eat dear?’ if the meenachis says not yet, macha put a stupid ayat like, ‘please go eat dear, nee nalla iruntha thane naa nalla iruke mudiyum’ (if you are well only I will be well) and the meenachis brain shuts down and their hearts melt like butter under the El Nino sun.

A case that came to us is a girl who has awesome English and looks fell for a SPM qualified cheating bastard she met on Facebook. She went to meet him once and love blossomed. She said his family is good so made the correlation that this guy too will be as good as gold. Apparently, he ayat-ed her in Tamil, not English – smart guy in covering up his lack of language acumen and intellect. They already celebrated first year anniversary before this girl finally sniffed up her karat macha bf’s hanky panky and left him after a major histrionic on Whatsapp.

Meenachis, do tests and observe a macha who ayats you’s activities closely – ask what is his education qualification, test his GK and command of English especially if he only speaks Tamil. Make a correlation of the education and job he says he possesses and is in – don’t only listen to his ayats. If he says he’s a software engineer ask him what’s SEO and MATLAB for example – don’t ask like in exam, ask him to recommend websites saying that you want to learn coding, anything to prove his job/education cognizance.

Girls, know that there is more to a guy than his ayat. Please don’t fall for mundane sweet talk – do a bit of background research if you like a guy before turning the like into love. Everyone loves flattery but fawning is dangerous and hints of a sweet talker who has plenty of experience cheating girls can be very dangerous for your psyche. You certainly deserve better