Indian guys' Entitlement on Indian girls on Facebook

I have experienced this flurry of friend requests from Indian and Malaysian Indian guys. But, the guys aren't to be blamed - our closed up societal attitudes that frown upon boy-girl normal interactions are to be blamed - I have a dream that will change and Indian guys learn that girls aren't trophies to pursue on Facebook but humans just like them too.

Apparently, my dream isn't going to be achieved anytime soon because we have seemingly educated Indian guys with regressive mentality and borderline victim blaming. They were like, "I have a dream that one day, Indian girls won't accept random friend requests from guys," and, "Girls accept requests to get likes for their pictures."

You guys think you can do shit and then blame girls for it? If girls don't accept, you call us bitches and stuck up. If we accept and don't reply to your utterly monotonous, gouging and inquisitorial messages, we're bitches and stuck up. If we accept and reply then we're cheap and easy and deserve the harassment coz we responded, "Who asked you to accept friend requests from random guys and talk to strange guys?' Y'all are all innocent.

Even the 'show me bobs and vagene' thingy. White girls came out with that divulge, not Indian girls. That's why it owned internet. Indian girls just block and keep quiet about it because if they publicize, they'll be blamed, "Who ask you talk to random boys on fb, accept their friend req?" They make it very convenient for such lecherous Indian guys to operate freely - no one ever blames them for harassing girls online. The girls get all the blame, from posting pictures of themselves, accepting friend requests from random guys or even replying to their texts as basic courtesy.

So guys, you stop first - sending friend requests to random girls. But, as social animals, it's not possible but at least respect and understand our situation. One day, if you have 20 people messaging you with the same shit of "hi, how are you, saptiya, enna sapta, enaku illaya?" every time you come online even Mother Theresa will say "Fuck Off." Probably she'll be more polite but you get my drift. It's highly annoying.

And, if girls are accepting random requests from guys for likes and you fucking know that's the reason they even accept, keep your self respect intact and don't send requests to 'try your luck' and then blame girls for it.

I am friends with some male followers of this page and they don't message me like some sexually deprived twats. I respect and appreciate them highly. And, I do text the guys who are able to hold interesting conversations about movies, philosophy and life goals to name a few. They sit way above you guys who send requests and then blame the girls for your own opportunist and hopeful tendencies fuelled by our stupid culture and college rules that prohibit boys and girls from normally interacting with each other - even suspecting brother and sister as lovers.

We have a long way to go in understanding each other.  Hope this helps as the broach.

Girls are not cold hearted bitches out to not to reply to guys online. They are just afraid, wary and do succumb to tedium online. Guys need to understand that and change your ballgame.