Trivial things that lead to divorce- is it really that trivial?
Now, we all know how Indian women have tolerated abusive husbands and relationships for generations because they are not supposed to leave their husbands no matter what. However, times are changing that we see or read about Indian wives who divorce their husbands for reasons which many within the society perceive as trivial. Trivial you may say - but those small things define the mutual respect that the husband has for the wife. So, if a man thinks he is fucking entitled to behave whichever way suits him while his wife has to put up with that- well, please be assured that somewhere down the line - your wife will file for divorce and walk away. Don't blame her for leaving a grown ass child who still needs a 'mother' to look and clean after him..
Trivial things that will deteriorate relationship between husband and wife:
a) Clean up after yourself
Leaving your dirty underwear, t-shirt and pants exactly where you took them off is not going to sit well with your wife especially when she is occupied with her own career as well. Your mother may have picked up your things and arranged them neatly for you but to expect your wife to do that just goes to show how fucking entitled and childish you are. You are a grown up man, you need to share responsibilities in managing a household so make sure you are doing your share of keeping the house clean. Your wife is your life partner, she is not your mother in disguise, so please grow up. The same goes to washing your own plate and cup after eating each time. Don't just leave them for your wife to wash. Nope, it is not her job to clean after you, you need to clean after yourself. You are not a handicap or invalid so make sure you do this small things. A wife actually divorced her husband because he leaves the glass in the sink all the time after using them. Trivial - yes but it goes to show that you men don't give a fuck about your wife - so why should she even care about you? Read this story here.
b) Controlling a wife's career and hobbies
This is another entitlement which most Indian men think they can exercise upon their wife. They get to decide what the wives should do and should not do. This includes keeping the wife under control and not allowing them to properly work or concentrate on their career development. Of course, there is a limit towards such oppression until the wife chooses to file for divorce and walk away from the husband. One such story is about a lawyer who divorced her husband and decided to be a single mother. She pursued her career and became very successful. What does that tell you Indian men out there? Well, it says Indian women are no longer confined towards marriage and their priority has changed towards creating their own identity through successful career. Read the link below:
c) Farting/snoring
Yes, trivial matters but snoring out loud does disrupt the amount of sleep that the wife can get and yes, it warrants a divorce. So, if you Indian men think women are going to tolerate this shitty habit, well, don't be surprised if she walks away, filing for divorce. So, you better be seeking medical treatment because snoring and disrupting your partner's sleep qualities is serious problem. For those who think women are over -reacting, well think if you can tolerate and sleep with a woman who continuously snores at night. If you can't then don't expect others to do that too. Read the link below:
Same goes to your farting habits. It can drive your partner away - trivial issue but does cause relationships to be ruined. It goes both ways with both genders as well.
Well, in today's world, the need to tolerate your abusive husband or to be in a bad relationship is reducing because women have become more and more independent. For Indian husbands who think their wives should be exactly like their mothers and grandmothers - you are in for a great shock. Improve yourself before your partner walks out on you and pull your weight to sustain a relationship. Remember, your wife is your life partner, she is not your mother in disguise.
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