Dress VS Deeds - a slap to those who conclude women's character by their dress
I was telling girls who make themseleves property that has no rights and human free will by chanting “En udamba en purushan ta mattum dha kaamipen” (I will only show my husband my body.) and a dude commented like this:
"Include the girls who say en udamba en purushan ta mattum dha
kaamipen"...If you wanna expose ur self in public and wanna be tat
"B**ch" you can do it.....You got no F**king rights to preach other
women....It's upto them....”
So girls who expose are bitches? Can you guarantee that all the girls who
don't expose are noble and sinless? Then you go on to say it's up to them -
yes, it's up to them. It’s their right alright. But just like you, they don’t
realise how this choice will come to bite their ass in a potential way, sooner
or later. Also, last time I checked,
this is a free country. Especially to call out on bullshit that harms women.
Do you know how 'un purusanukku mattum udamba kaami' shit is killing women? Many Women won't go for breast examinations and pap smear because of shame – one of my mom’s colleagues had breast cancer. She always complained of pain in her breasts and wouldn’t see a doc coz of shame of showing her breast to strange men = male doctors. She died within a year. She was 38. More and more women are giving birth at home without medical assistance - didn't you hear about the 28 year old woman who died as result of home birth - her placenta didn't come out. Many demand for female ob only. And, many won't let women pursue careers that require odd hours working like medicine. Women are dying because of your stupid culture, that you’re so proud of. And, see how you’re making male medical personnel seem like rapists and molesters. Male nurses have female patients refusing them from doing their job – bathing, toweling, dressing surgical wounds at certain body parts and clothing the latter. See how utterly damaging your culture is for men too?
Do you know how 'un purusanukku mattum udamba kaami' shit is killing women? Many Women won't go for breast examinations and pap smear because of shame – one of my mom’s colleagues had breast cancer. She always complained of pain in her breasts and wouldn’t see a doc coz of shame of showing her breast to strange men = male doctors. She died within a year. She was 38. More and more women are giving birth at home without medical assistance - didn't you hear about the 28 year old woman who died as result of home birth - her placenta didn't come out. Many demand for female ob only. And, many won't let women pursue careers that require odd hours working like medicine. Women are dying because of your stupid culture, that you’re so proud of. And, see how you’re making male medical personnel seem like rapists and molesters. Male nurses have female patients refusing them from doing their job – bathing, toweling, dressing surgical wounds at certain body parts and clothing the latter. See how utterly damaging your culture is for men too?
And you know, there's a health epidemic in Muslim communities in Europe
currently - vitamin D deficiency and osteomalacia. It’s because of the burqa
shielding Muslim women from the little sunlight that part of the world gets.
Most Vitamin D is derived from exposure to sunshine - women who cover up in
burqa/niqab don't get sufficient vitamin D that plays the role of bone calcium
and phosphate absorption. Children, Muslim children who are exclusively
breastfed are having brittle and soft bones, a condition called rickets.
Untreated, it leads to permanent body deformity and very short stature. OK? So,
shut it. Your culture is killing women and children. I am not even mentioning
skin and scalp problems that need ventilation, something the
hijab/burqa/niqab/abaya prevents.
Women are humans who get ill, have health problems that need to be addressed ASAP and get uncomfortable, not their husband's property. Women have free will just like men. Fucking understand that. I know many women who cover themselves up in layers of saree and are absolutely evil. Sasikala? She covers up. She's a good human being? Qandeel Baloch maintained a sexy image online. But, she's the one who took care of her family, including her brother who killed her in the name of family. She provided them with a bigger house and all amenities, she sent them money and things to use. Is Qandeel's character bad?
Dress got nothing to do with character. You have no fucking rights to kill women by perpetuating the belief that their body is only for their husband to see.
You shouldn't correlate dressing with character. Also, please understand
how this culture is killing women, creating a serious health crisis and
affecting the next gen.
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